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e’ve had a really good holiday season this year, and we’ve done it all without a camera. Boo! Once again, our camera is having issues. Poor Jessie won’t have many pictures of her. Although I just finished scrap booking David’s baby album and I’m sure I could photo shop some of his pictures, make the clothes pink, add a little bit more dark hair, whala, Jessie.

But I digress. We spent Thanksgiving at Harris and Shayna’s. She made a beautiful dinner and the kids had so much fun playing together. Then we headed up to Dillon to spend time with Chad’s family. It was a nice relaxing visit. I love that our kids cousins are big enough to play now. They had so much fun running around a big house screaming at the top of their lungs. We love grandpa and grandma’s house.

Right after we got back we bought our real Christmas tree. It was magical. Our house smelled like a winter wonderland which made up for the lack of snow outside. We started getting ready to have our first Christmas at home, just us!  We were very excited. But when Patrick and Auretta woke up at 4am and we sleepy told them they could look at their stockings, our dream Christmas went kind of south. We woke up to candy and candy wrappers EVERYWHERE! It was a total mess and the first thing Auretta said to me on Christmas morning was, “I don’t feel good/” (hehe, I laugh now but I didn’t then). We sent them back to bed from 7-8 and opened David’s stocking with him. Once we were finally all up and not feeling sick, we opened presents which was nice enough. We ate breakfast and went to church despite the fact that all 6 of us were exhausted. It was a beautiful meeting. It wasn’t’ a perfect day like we imagined, but we were together and that was perfect. I love our growing family, it was nice just to be us together at home.

Now back track. We were suppose to have my family come after Christmas but my mom spent Thanksgiving to December 22nd in Missouri with my grandma Harris who was losing her battle with cancer. On the the 23rd I got a call saying she had passed peacefully. So instead of my family coming here we met up in Denver for her burial. It was the first time my family has been together for 5 years. Funerals and weddings, the great gatherings. We said our goodbyes to a fantastic woman. And had fun with each other.  It was a great 4 days. Our last night we spent in Woodland Park for New Years Eve. I got to watch the fireworks go off on top of Pikes Peak. It has been at least 7 years since I’ve seen that. We went to our old ward, saw a friend and headed back home. And we brought my brother Kyle back with us. Man, he has a lot of stuff!

Now we’re back home enjoying the warm weather; Patrick wore shorts to school the other day :P I’ll try to round up some pictures from my siblings blogs. Then again, maybe not.

Oh, one more thing, the first place winner for gifts this year goes to…… my in-laws. As the children ask, “What’s that noise?” I smile and respond, “The dishwasher!”

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o the woman who

loved me,

fed me pie (5 different verities every Thanksgiving),

dressed me and my children in homemade outfits for special occasions,

remembered me and my family even if I wasn’t diligent about calling often,

and held my hand as I sat in the temple for the first time,

thank you.

To the woman who taught me

to listen, really listen,

brand names don’t make babies more precious,

children are broken dishwashers,

there’s no such thing as spoiling a baby,

a baby is never bad news,

my in-laws are good people,

and that there is always room for one more,

thank you.

To the woman who

prayed over,

stayed up all night for,

cried over,

stressed over,

taught,

loved,

and raised my magnificent  mother,

thank you.

I’ll do my best to continue the link of strong, kind women.

I love you Grandma, always have, always will.

’til we meet again, your picture will stay on my wall and your hand print will stay on my heart.

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read wonderful blogs. The writing is perfect and catchy. And then I think, I want to write something cleaver. Well, let’s be honest here, I’m a math person and a loud mouth. I don’t write very well. But hey, neither did Moroni (at least he thought he didn’t). Anyways, I want to share a tidbit so excuse my lack of cute and funny and whatever.

Patrick and Auretta are cuddled on the couch, Auretta snoring. Both still in their church clothes. David’s walking around trying to wake them up every 15 minutes. And I think to myself, I’m a lucky woman. This is a good moment.

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an you guess?

1. I’m not a fan of Christmas music on the radio, bah hum bug! Give me my music back!
2. I don’t like crunchy leaves, they just blow around and I have raking all the time!
3. I HATE twilight! Too many details to list.

And the answer is #2. I love crunchy leaves, who doesn’t? That and my tree doesn’t shed too many.

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few days ago I read a post on one of my favorite blogs. Fact Check: A True Friend is Always There For You.  And it got me thinking, like most of her posts do.

So in the last month I’ve quit facebook, had a couple of mishaps with friends, and said no a lot more than I have been known to in the past. I have said things I never meant in moments of physical and emotional exhaustion and I have not been supportive to others who were also going through a hard time.

I have been one crappy friend. But I’m happy to report, a better mother. My world has done a dramatic shrinking act, it now fits inside the walls of my home for the most part.

The bigger part of me is grateful for this and I’m loving it! I found a power to say, “You know what, I would love to but I can’t today.” That is cause for celebration.

But a small part of me is heartbroken and wondering if I’m burning bridges. How do you know which bridge is so stretched out that it is just not going to hold together when you need it so you might as well cut it down to add strength to another?  And how do you know when a weak bridge just needs time and some more material in order to become a well needed highway?

And how do you turn off your brain and just be content????